Meet Chaya
We met Chaya*during our menstrual kit distribution at CASANepal. Here’s what she said about her journey towards becoming a hilda.
My name is Chaya. I am 21 years old. I got married when I was 19 years old. Everything went well at first but after a few months, our marriage turned sour just because I was sick for a few days. They did not help me get the treatment, so I had to go to my parents’ house where I had to stay for a few days. When I went back, my in-laws along with my husband accused me of having cancer and started verbally, emotionally, and physically abusing me. I was always accused of not bringing enough dowry. I went back to my parent’s home.
A few ‘wise’ people from society again took me back to his house to understand if it was my fault and if possible for me to stay there. My in-laws mistreated them and told me that I could go live in the jungle for all they care. I stayed with my parents and one day I met a social worker who helped me file the case against my husband. The legal proceedings took a long time. I was starting to feel depressed and suicidal. The most important thing I needed at that time was shelter and I needed to be independent.
The social worker advised me to go to Casa Nepal. I came to Casa Nepal and learned to stay in a group where I don’t feel alone. I learned many skills such as life skills, knitting, and dance. I wanted to take the Montessori Training and Casa Nepal provided the best. I got a job as soon as the training finished. Right now, I am teaching in a Montessori based school and earning 8,000/- NRs. per month for a few months.
I am still staying in Casa Nepal and will resettle somewhere when I have enough funds. I can talk to the psychosocial counselor anytime I feel like.
I feel confident. I am happy.
*Name and identifying details have been changed to protect the privacy of individual.